关于性的话题
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关于性的话题有了网络,我很少看报纸。今天网络不好,随手翻阅同事拿来的一份报纸。一篇文章吸引了我,哈哈,当然和“性”有关,不然也不会如此感兴趣。文章的题目是《成人用品,你能接受多少》,是对第三届国际成人用品展销会的报道。
此展览会在国际大都市举行,开幕式后,拥挤的人群差点晶玻璃门挤坏。此展览会有几个现象备受关注:性教育光盘被哄抢一空;观众脸红心跳争看情趣内衣表演;安全套免费派送火热;男女观众必列严重失调,百分之八十是男性。由此可见其火爆程度。
可反观成人用品市场却萎靡不振,这和我们国家人么的思想观念不可分割。大多数人看来“性”这一话题还有点神秘感,仅从“成人用品”的称呼就可以看出,我们还对此有些“躲躲闪闪”。
现实社会的确是如此。因为祖父和父亲都是中医,所以我懂一些医学知识,站在科学的角度看待“性”,它只是生理问题。
网络上一些人热衷于此话题,而也有一些人对此反感,就像参观者女性居多一样,网上的女性对“性”反感者居多。很多女性朋友在qq说明中明确说:拒绝无聊者,拒绝谈感情,其实就是含蓄的告诉想加她的朋友,拒绝谈关于“性”的话题。
我曾遇到过一位外地女性网友在省会进修,聊过几次后,她看我很可靠,就说了她和丈夫不合的事,不见面时,在网上聊天很快乐,可回家就吵架,然后分居。她还说,她来进修只是借口,也是为了躲避没有感情的婚姻。后来经过我了解,我让她把我当成医生说出她和丈夫之间性生活的情况,我知道他们的不合完全是性生活的不和-谐造成的,经过我给她出主意,推荐她阅读性生活方面的书等方法,并告诉她不要害羞,有时候女性也要主动,但不要着急,要慢慢来适应。( 散文阅读:www.sanwen.net )
半年后,再在网上遇到她时,她很高兴。她感谢我对她的帮助,她和丈夫和好了,而且比新婚时都好。她对她丈夫说到了我,她说她丈夫也很感激我,他们经常去我的主页阅读那些平淡的生活文字。她说,虽然是在网上,但谈论关于性的话题也很害羞,要是在现实中面对我的话,即使我是医生,她也说不出口。所以她感谢网络,她庆幸认识了我,从此她就叫我大哥,还欢迎我到他们那儿去玩。
从我上面的讲述可知,目前我们国家的民众因为受传统道德习俗的影响,对于“性”还难于启齿,更不用说去享受那份“****”。这次的成人用品国际展应该说对于我们国家民众的“性”观念造成了一定的影响,但还期待我们更加有效的科学宣传和在青少年中进行正确的性教育。让“性”不再神秘。
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非常经典有深度的电影英文台词
1.一个人总要走陌生的路,看陌生的风景,听陌生的歌,然后在某个不经意的瞬间,你会发现,原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福,不是长生不老,不是大鱼大肉,不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃,想被爱的时候有人来爱你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.爱情是灯,友情是影子,当灯灭了,你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友,是在最后可以给你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我爱你不是因为你是谁,而是我在你面前可以是谁。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.爱情,要么让人成熟,要么让人堕落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.举得起放得下的叫举重,举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜,大多数人的爱情,都是负重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中,人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人,用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人,再用一天的时间去爱上一个人,到最后呢,却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一个人一生可以爱上很多的人,等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后,你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富,它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱,但是随着年龄的增长,终于领悟到爱一个人,就算用一辈子的时间,还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人,体谅这个人,直到爱上为止,是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.当明天变成了今天成为了昨天,最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天,我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走,这不是静止火车里,与相邻列车交错时,仿佛自己在前进的错觉,而是我们真实的在成长,在这件事里成了另一个自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11.离开我就别安慰我,要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾经拥有的,不要忘记。不能得到的,更要珍惜。属于自己的,不要放弃。已经失去的,留作回忆。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离,这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人,充满变数,我于是后退一步,静静的看着,直到看见真诚的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的爱是俯视而生,而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界,坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前,应该一直留有一个地方,独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么,不知道是谁,不知道如何去爱,也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情,也许永远都没有人。可是,这种等待,就是爱情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦?我们总以为那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我们才发现,它一直都是很轻,很轻的。我们以为爱的很深,很深,来日岁月,会让你知道,它不过很浅,很浅。最深和最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在这个世界上,只有真正快乐的男人,才能带给女人真正的快乐。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果没有感性,就要理性;如果没有理性,就要有自知之明;如果连这个都没有了,她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的爱情,需要的不是伤心,而是时间,一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.