写给妹妹的话
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写给妹妹的话生活中,每个人都会碰到情投意合的人,特别是朋友之间,这种关系更是另人羡慕。认识宝贝妹妹也很久了,但是我们之间的感情一直都很好,有时候的妹妹感觉很可爱,可有时候,却又会给你种疏远的感觉,可能这是妹妹的性格吧!但是,妹妹却和我差不多,在感情方面,总是不那么顺心。妹妹好喜欢一个人,可是要知道,失去的是不能再重来的,也许会有重来的奇迹,但是奇迹可能发生在我们身上吗?这种几率真的好少好少~!妹妹很痛苦,看到现在的妹妹,自己似乎也会心疼起来,不仅因为想起了自己的感情,更是因为妹妹的不开心。虽然平时她看起来很开朗,但是遇到感情,要让一个人放开的去看,真的是很不容易的事情。从前的我和妹妹一样,十分的痛苦,但是现在我想通了~!同时也想告诉妹妹,做人要向前看,现在的感情也许你放不掉,但是你必须做到去一点一滴地忘记,不能整天都想着他,因为他不会知道,你们也不可能再有机会。面对感情,我们既然能够去接受,最终我们也应该做到勇敢的去接受最后的结果,即使结果不完美,但只要是曾经拥有过,还有什么可以遗憾的呢?!妹妹也不要一直想着他,不要为他哭,因为这样不值得,他永远不会知道也不会再在乎你所做的一切,这样的你就是在折磨你自己,所以,像JJ一样,放开点,想开点,以后的时间真的很长,现在的感情并不坚固,也是不可信的,要相信将来的你会得到一份属于自己真正的爱情,并且是可以给你带来幸福的!
几条原则,要切记,每天都看自己做到没:
一、是否以乐观的态度生活。
二、是否全力以赴地面对所有的挑战
三、是否为人真诚、善良、与人友好相处,乐于助人
四、是否做每件事情之前都积极准备了( 散文阅读:www.sanwen.net )
五、是否合理地安排了时间,每天都给自己个计划,晚上看自己完成了多少,计划要切合实际和自己的情况
六、是否对自己正在学习的知识产生兴趣,没有兴趣的话,就深入地挖掘,肯定会发现奇迹
七、是否在有意识地培养自己的各方面能力,积极主动地锻炼自己的能力
八、是否在遇到困难的时候坚持做下去而最终见到美好的阳光
九、是否每天都在理性地思考,感性地用心地去体会生活和现实,记住每一天的生命都是美好而值得珍惜的,而不是每天感到无聊,如行尸走肉地麻木地生活
十、是否每天都有各方面新的进步,哪怕是一丁点都是可喜的,每天的计划里都要让自己在某个方面有所进步,只要有进步,就是希望
十一、是否在寻找和在逐渐形成自己独立的思想,即开始拥有自己的世界观和想法,而不是没有主见。
十二、是否在开始逐渐发现自己的理想所在,没有长期的也必须有近期的理想或志向,人的一生最重要的是要有追求,如果不在高中这个美好的阶段注重培养自己的追求,将来到了大学你会无比的迷茫,这也是现在大学生面临最严重的精神危机
十三、是否坚强,无论是男孩还是女孩都要学会坚强,要对自己说“不许哭,我能处理”
十四、是否注重自己在艺术方面的培养,不是专门的训练而是在课余在这方面有所学习和进步,如在没事的时候写写文章,画画,练字,学唱歌,或者读小说
十五、最后问自己的是否还感到迷茫,如果还有的话那再看看上面的十四条,哪条没做好,再努力去做,每天都让自己生活的充实,那就不可能不快乐了!生活就是这么复杂又其实很简单,当你做到了,你就敢对生活说:“切”。
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非常经典有深度的电影英文台词
1.一个人总要走陌生的路,看陌生的风景,听陌生的歌,然后在某个不经意的瞬间,你会发现,原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福,不是长生不老,不是大鱼大肉,不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃,想被爱的时候有人来爱你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.爱情是灯,友情是影子,当灯灭了,你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友,是在最后可以给你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我爱你不是因为你是谁,而是我在你面前可以是谁。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.爱情,要么让人成熟,要么让人堕落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.举得起放得下的叫举重,举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜,大多数人的爱情,都是负重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中,人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人,用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人,再用一天的时间去爱上一个人,到最后呢,却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一个人一生可以爱上很多的人,等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后,你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富,它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱,但是随着年龄的增长,终于领悟到爱一个人,就算用一辈子的时间,还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人,体谅这个人,直到爱上为止,是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.当明天变成了今天成为了昨天,最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天,我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走,这不是静止火车里,与相邻列车交错时,仿佛自己在前进的错觉,而是我们真实的在成长,在这件事里成了另一个自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11.离开我就别安慰我,要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾经拥有的,不要忘记。不能得到的,更要珍惜。属于自己的,不要放弃。已经失去的,留作回忆。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离,这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人,充满变数,我于是后退一步,静静的看着,直到看见真诚的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的爱是俯视而生,而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界,坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前,应该一直留有一个地方,独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么,不知道是谁,不知道如何去爱,也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情,也许永远都没有人。可是,这种等待,就是爱情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦?我们总以为那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我们才发现,它一直都是很轻,很轻的。我们以为爱的很深,很深,来日岁月,会让你知道,它不过很浅,很浅。最深和最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在这个世界上,只有真正快乐的男人,才能带给女人真正的快乐。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果没有感性,就要理性;如果没有理性,就要有自知之明;如果连这个都没有了,她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的爱情,需要的不是伤心,而是时间,一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.