分手后绝情的话

2014-03-15

《分手后绝情的话》好句子大全

分手后绝情的话喜欢一个人,并不一定要爱她(他);但爱一个人的前提,却是一定要喜欢她(他)。喜欢很容易转变为爱,但爱过之后却很难再说喜欢;因为喜欢是宽容的,而爱则是自私的。喜欢是一种轻松而淡然的心态,但爱却太沉重;爱一旦说出口就变成了一种誓言,一种承诺。爱是把双刃剑,如果拔出,一不小心,即伤了别人也了拉自己。被爱所伤的人心中永远都有一道不会愈合的伤口。在月朗星稀的夜晚,你思念着远方的朋友,如果心中只是一种淡淡的喜悦和温馨,那就是喜欢;如果其中还有一份隐隐的疼痛,那便是爱

第一句:你想太多了!

两个人,谈感情,必然是心连着心,当一方出现撕扯,轨道偏离,另一方怎会不知?但一句“你想太多了”,明明是自己发了他人的芽,却因为害怕承担而把责任都推在了对方身上,这种痛,让人情何以堪,敷衍得太过冰冷而做作,有时候犯错并不可怕,谁人不犯错?但可怕的是人连犯错的诚意都没有,做那些无畏的遮掩有什么意义呢?你爱了一个人,如果不能深爱,不能真爱,起码好好埋葬,有的人就是这样,分手时,连全尸都不留给别人。

第二句:我和她,只是朋友!

首先,不管你和她到底是不是朋友,无比在乎你的爱人,已经受了伤,被酸腐蚀,轻重自知,难道你忙着解释的时候,就不着急安抚一下她的伤口么?一个人到底为什么会因为这件事而与你生气?心里难道不清楚么?

第三句:那你想怎么样呢?( 散文阅读:www.sanwen.net )

如果不是那一刻的仰望与凝视,我不会发现我此刻的冰凉和灰心,我想怎样?我想爱你啊!我突然反思起那个被你的一句“那你想怎么样呢?”问得听起来像无赖的我自己,突然也真的失去了方向,我与你相遇,也许是为了爱情,为了幸福,为了心里最原始的声音和向往,但绝对不是为了吵架,为了被这般的质问。既然前方没有路,我也就拔了这继续生长的根……

那样,你会怎么想呢?

第四句:你该对自己好一点。

一个女人,如何才叫对自己好?保养自己的皮肤?爱护自己的头发?在优众网上血拼?用各种奢侈品包装自己?都不是,女人最好的化妆品是爱情,女人最好的衣服是爱人的拥抱。这些并不难看出,这句话,只说明爱昏了的男人心智已迷。

一个男人,如何才叫对自己好?少喝酒少抽烟?按时吃饭?按时睡觉?都不是,男人最大的保养品是爱情,男人最大的面子是身边自己的女人的依偎,这也不难看出,这句话只是分心分得太远的女人,临别前的自以为体贴的自我安慰。

第五句:多给我一些空间吧!

相濡以沫,这个故事的曲调,和这句话刚好相反,为什么要给你多一些的空间?认识之前的空间有多大?你偏偏选择与那个人心心相连,手相牵。你们是以爱的名义灵魂相融,而现在,你又是以什么名义说出这句话?爱情里没有强迫,两个人的距离从来是自然而成,“多一些空间”,一旦变成了你的要求,你何不直接说分手,有些人就是这样,有以爱情的名义表白,没有勇气以背叛爱情的罪名分手。

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非常经典有深度的电影英文台词

1.一个人总要走陌生的路,看陌生的风景,听陌生的歌,然后在某个不经意的瞬间,你会发现,原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。

One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

2.幸福,不是长生不老,不是大鱼大肉,不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃,想被爱的时候有人来爱你。

Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

3.爱情是灯,友情是影子,当灯灭了,你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友,是在最后可以给你力量的人。

Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

4.我爱你不是因为你是谁,而是我在你面前可以是谁。

I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

5.爱情,要么让人成熟,要么让人堕落。

Love makes man grow up or sink down.

6.举得起放得下的叫举重,举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜,大多数人的爱情,都是负重的。

If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

7.我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中,人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人,用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人,再用一天的时间去爱上一个人,到最后呢,却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。

We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

8.一个人一生可以爱上很多的人,等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后,你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富,它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。

One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

9.年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱,但是随着年龄的增长,终于领悟到爱一个人,就算用一辈子的时间,还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人,体谅这个人,直到爱上为止,是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。

When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

10.当明天变成了今天成为了昨天,最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天,我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走,这不是静止火车里,与相邻列车交错时,仿佛自己在前进的错觉,而是我们真实的在成长,在这件事里成了另一个自己。

When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

11.离开我就别安慰我,要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。

If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

12.曾经拥有的,不要忘记。不能得到的,更要珍惜。属于自己的,不要放弃。已经失去的,留作回忆。

Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

13.我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离,这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人,充满变数,我于是后退一步,静静的看着,直到看见真诚的感情。

I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

14.男人的爱是俯视而生,而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。

Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

15.好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界,坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。

Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

16.在自己面前,应该一直留有一个地方,独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么,不知道是谁,不知道如何去爱,也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情,也许永远都没有人。可是,这种等待,就是爱情本身。

We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

17.有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦?我们总以为那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我们才发现,它一直都是很轻,很轻的。我们以为爱的很深,很深,来日岁月,会让你知道,它不过很浅,很浅。最深和最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。

Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.

18.在这个世界上,只有真正快乐的男人,才能带给女人真正的快乐。

In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness

19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果没有感性,就要理性;如果没有理性,就要有自知之明;如果连这个都没有了,她只有不幸。

If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

20.一段不被接受的爱情,需要的不是伤心,而是时间,一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。

An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.