对最好朋友说的话
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对最好朋友说的话25岁是一个主旋律的年纪,豆蔻年华渐远而魅力渐至,灵魂已经基本成型。如果你看得足够远,你之后的人生,很大程度上和25岁的想法息息相关。所以,亲爱的,请记住:
一:就算买债券也不把钱存在银行,那只会贬值,绝不会升值。
二:有能力,并且可以立即购买一件自己非常想要,但相对昂贵的东西。
三:主动问候你想念的朋友。别斤斤计较谁先和谁联络,谁关心谁更多,25岁以后,获得一个真朋友会越来越难。
四:除非是已经有计划,且条件已经成熟,否则不要轻易更换城市。地域、人脉、爱人、工作经验等,都有可能被清零。
五:从今天开始,最晚要在0点前睡觉,自己的身体自己要好好爱惜。( 散文阅读:www.sanwen.net )
六:别再相信“永远”,享受当下。不属于你的人和事,就别再想了。
七:努力工作,但也要有失业的准备。
八:存折上至少有应付失业三个月的生活费,这是底线。
九:是秘密,就谁也别告诉。
十:有自己下厨吃饱肚子的动手能力,蛋炒饭是最低要求。
十一:把无聊发呆的时间用来看新闻。不是娱乐八卦,而是关于“今天世界发生了什么”。同时别总是看韩剧,看点儿美剧,这更能锻炼你的思维逻辑。
十二:想清楚自己到底想要什么。现在,关于事业,关于爱情,你都有了一定经历,是时候好好想想这个问题了。
十三:在衣橱里准备一两套有品位的礼服。也许一年中只有一两次穿着它们的机会,但这一两次就足够让你成为焦点。
十四:别急着买奢侈品。你这个年纪,最贵的护肤品应该是眼霜,最好的化妆品应该是微笑。
十五:不要尽信理论和书本,包括我们现在告诉你的。
十六:好好梳理一次已经过去的人生。看看你25岁之前得到了什么,失去了什么……
十七:出门旅行,去看看博物馆和美术馆,和当地人聊聊天。
十八:谈过至少一次恋爱,并且依然相信爱情。
十九:知道自己穿什么风格的衣服最好看。找对风格远比紧跟流行智慧得多,从现在开始,“气质”这个词对你而言越来越重要。
二十:别再指望全世界把你当公主或王子。
二十一:任何年纪,都记得给父母一周至少一次电话。
二十二:回家再哭,试着将自己的脆弱隐藏起来。25岁在人前哭,不会为你争取同情分。
二十三:伤害过你的前男(女)友问你好不好,回答“很好”。被你抛弃的前男(女)友问你好不好,回答“很好”。他(她)们,都不是你的谁。
二十四:试着欣赏你的对手,取长补短是你打败他的唯一途径。
二十五:你必须有一件除爱情以外,真正喜欢的“东西”,或者特长,即使是像唱歌、讲笑话这样的小事。
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1.一个人总要走陌生的路,看陌生的风景,听陌生的歌,然后在某个不经意的瞬间,你会发现,原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福,不是长生不老,不是大鱼大肉,不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃,想被爱的时候有人来爱你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.爱情是灯,友情是影子,当灯灭了,你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友,是在最后可以给你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我爱你不是因为你是谁,而是我在你面前可以是谁。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.爱情,要么让人成熟,要么让人堕落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.举得起放得下的叫举重,举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜,大多数人的爱情,都是负重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中,人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人,用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人,再用一天的时间去爱上一个人,到最后呢,却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一个人一生可以爱上很多的人,等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后,你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富,它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱,但是随着年龄的增长,终于领悟到爱一个人,就算用一辈子的时间,还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人,体谅这个人,直到爱上为止,是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.当明天变成了今天成为了昨天,最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天,我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走,这不是静止火车里,与相邻列车交错时,仿佛自己在前进的错觉,而是我们真实的在成长,在这件事里成了另一个自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11.离开我就别安慰我,要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾经拥有的,不要忘记。不能得到的,更要珍惜。属于自己的,不要放弃。已经失去的,留作回忆。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离,这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人,充满变数,我于是后退一步,静静的看着,直到看见真诚的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的爱是俯视而生,而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界,坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前,应该一直留有一个地方,独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么,不知道是谁,不知道如何去爱,也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情,也许永远都没有人。可是,这种等待,就是爱情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦?我们总以为那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我们才发现,它一直都是很轻,很轻的。我们以为爱的很深,很深,来日岁月,会让你知道,它不过很浅,很浅。最深和最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在这个世界上,只有真正快乐的男人,才能带给女人真正的快乐。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果没有感性,就要理性;如果没有理性,就要有自知之明;如果连这个都没有了,她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的爱情,需要的不是伤心,而是时间,一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.