对老婆说的话

2014-04-12

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对老婆说的话想对老婆说的话,当面又不好意思讲...

唉,心里有些话想对老婆讲,可是面对老婆的时候又真的讲不出来。今天下午借了个QQ号,加上老婆,想从QQ上对她说,可是她那边有查账的(老婆在档案室工作),她说不方便,让我打电话给她,我心想如果电话里能说,又何苦这样折腾呢,所以又没有讲成。想来想去,不说又不痛快,就暂时在这里说给大家听听吧。反正大家也都不认识我。 我跟老婆结婚算来刚好七年了,我们是2001年2月结的婚,很快就要八年了。前些日子老婆也说起七年之痒的事,问我感觉怎么样(其实老婆文化水平不高,关于七年之痒的意思她是仔细看了之后才明白的),我当时心里马上就有了答案,可是,现实就是这样,我跟老婆从来没有说过那些卿卿我我的话,所以,虽然心里有,但真的不好意思说。 昨天晚上,我在单位值班,十二点了还没睡着,翻来覆去的,想给老婆发短信告诉他我的心里话,可是,又觉得太麻烦,短信说不清,迷迷糊糊睡着了。 我想对老婆说的话是什么呢?—— 老婆:现实中极少这样称呼她,我们结婚七年了,通过这七年来的一起生活,我发现她绝对的是一个贤妻良母,是一个好妻子,好妈妈,我越来越感觉到,我这一辈子都不会离开她,我越来越感觉到老婆的好,我想说,经过这七年,我们的感情不仅没有丝毫的变淡,而且是越来越浓,越来越深了,我现在每每起起老婆来,心里就觉得很幸福,现在的她与以前(我们没有结婚之前)比,更让我没说得了,以前她的脾气还不很好,甚至有些暴躁,我们那时候有时吵架很凶的。但现在仔细想想,真的很少很少了,因为我感觉老婆比以前真的通情达理了很多很多,脾气也比以前好了太多了。她的优点有很多,我不想一一描述,我心里为有这样的好妻子感到心满意足。所以,我喝了酒之后,跟一些狐朋狗友开些过分的玩笑时,也从来不开老婆的玩笑,我总是这样说,我这一辈子,再有钱,我也不会跟老婆离婚的。绝对不会。但是,心里虽然对老婆是这样的感觉,面对着她时,却说不出来。现在老婆偶尔也会撒娇的问我,我们感情怎么样的话题云云,我有这些话,对着她却根本不想说,总是敷衍了事过去。我也纳闷,怎么会这样呢。 还有一个挺严重的问题就是,虽然我心里觉得老婆有一百个好,不仅嘴上不对她说,反而有时总是拿老婆开玩笑。因为女人一生了孩子,从身体各个方面真的是有了很大差异,比如皮肤松弛,肚子子上有妊娠纹什么的,我有时总会拿这个跟老婆开玩笑,说她真的不如以前了这些话,但我发誓,绝对不是有心的。就是管不住自己的嘴。印象里,有两次都把老婆说得生了气,特别是前天,因为我喝了酒,又跟老婆开玩笑,又把老婆给惹生气了。 唉,虽然过后我跟老婆道了歉,她也破涕为笑(老婆很好哄),不再跟我计较,也不再当真了。可是我在这之后却总是感觉到对老婆非常愧疚,为什么我心里把老婆当成宝,嘴巴却这么烂呢。所以想郑重的向老婆再道一次歉,我想把这些话说出来,让老婆知道,我现在,真的把她当作我手心里的宝了。,,,,

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非常经典有深度的电影英文台词

1.一个人总要走陌生的路,看陌生的风景,听陌生的歌,然后在某个不经意的瞬间,你会发现,原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。

One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.( 散文阅读:www.sanwen.net )

2.幸福,不是长生不老,不是大鱼大肉,不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃,想被爱的时候有人来爱你。

Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

3.爱情是灯,友情是影子,当灯灭了,你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友,是在最后可以给你力量的人。

Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

4.我爱你不是因为你是谁,而是我在你面前可以是谁。

I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

5.爱情,要么让人成熟,要么让人堕落。

Love makes man grow up or sink down.

6.举得起放得下的叫举重,举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜,大多数人的爱情,都是负重的。

If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

7.我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中,人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人,用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人,再用一天的时间去爱上一个人,到最后呢,却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。

We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

8.一个人一生可以爱上很多的人,等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后,你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富,它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。

One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

9.年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱,但是随着年龄的增长,终于领悟到爱一个人,就算用一辈子的时间,还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人,体谅这个人,直到爱上为止,是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。

When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

10.当明天变成了今天成为了昨天,最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天,我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走,这不是静止火车里,与相邻列车交错时,仿佛自己在前进的错觉,而是我们真实的在成长,在这件事里成了另一个自己。

When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

11.离开我就别安慰我,要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。

If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

12.曾经拥有的,不要忘记。不能得到的,更要珍惜。属于自己的,不要放弃。已经失去的,留作回忆。

Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

13.我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离,这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人,充满变数,我于是后退一步,静静的看着,直到看见真诚的感情。

I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

14.男人的爱是俯视而生,而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。

Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

15.好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界,坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。

Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

16.在自己面前,应该一直留有一个地方,独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么,不知道是谁,不知道如何去爱,也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情,也许永远都没有人。可是,这种等待,就是爱情本身。

We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

17.有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦?我们总以为那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我们才发现,它一直都是很轻,很轻的。我们以为爱的很深,很深,来日岁月,会让你知道,它不过很浅,很浅。最深和最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。

Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.

18.在这个世界上,只有真正快乐的男人,才能带给女人真正的快乐。

In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness

19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果没有感性,就要理性;如果没有理性,就要有自知之明;如果连这个都没有了,她只有不幸。

If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

20.一段不被接受的爱情,需要的不是伤心,而是时间,一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。

An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.