父母对孩子鼓励的话
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父母对孩子鼓励的话1什么情况下说这句话?
当孩子对某件事做得虽不一定正确但却很投入时就说:你做得漂亮极了。
2学会用这句话激励孩子:
亮亮从小就特别喜欢搞小制作。有一天,他想给自己做一副眼镜,爸爸很支持他,为他准备了许多材料,妈妈还为他找来一副太阳镜供他参考。拆、装、画每一个步骤,亮亮都完成得很好,只是在剪工上出现了一些问题,光滑的眼镜边被他剪得参差不齐。爸爸指着他的作品嘲笑起来,令亮亮很不开心,随即将眼镜边剪成锯齿状,原本规规矩矩的作品让他搞得面目全非。可妈妈却夸奖亮亮:“你做得漂亮极了!这些锯齿真像太阳的光芒!”亮亮一听,高兴得手舞足蹈,最后他真的把这些锯齿染成红色,眼镜被带到幼儿园后还受到了老师和小朋友的赞赏。从此,亮亮更加迷上小制作了。
四岁多的张文龙特别好动,而且好奇心很强,他还有“改造”玩具的天赋。比如买回来的积木,张文龙可以按照自己的想象堆出奇形怪状的东西来,而不是玩具制造商所设计的本来玩法。刚开始爸爸总是先教儿子怎样玩,后来,买回积木后,爸爸索性把自主权交给儿子,随便他怎么玩。每当张文龙让父母欣赏自己的“杰作”时,爸爸都会给以称赞:“哇,你做得漂亮极了!”这时,张文龙就会洋洋得意地又一个人开始了新的尝试。父母发现,在这个过程中,孩子的脑子越来越灵活了。
每个人在生活中都希望在某个时刻去获得别人的认同,这是通过别人来认识和肯定自己的一种方式,孩子也一样。他们甚至更希望别人多关注自己,尤其希望得到爸爸妈妈的肯定和赞扬。( 文章阅读网:www.sanwen.net )
作为父母,应该理解孩子的这种心理。在家里,父母对孩子的关心,不仅是生活上,更要体现在心理需求上。如孩子画了一幅画、考了好成绩或洗了一大堆衣服,细心的父母会注意及时给以鼓励,说一句“你做得漂亮极了”,孩子就会情绪高涨,劲头十足地把其他事情也争取做得漂亮一些。反之,如果父母长期忽略孩子的想法,对孩子的进步漠然视之,孩子就会把自己隐藏起来,与父母离得远远的。
有时,哪怕孩子做的事并不是那么理想,父母也要给予表扬和肯定。比如,孩子动脑筋做了一件事,可能在父母看来,这事太小,不值一提,但是孩子毕竟付出了努力。父母完全可以夸他一句:“你做得漂亮极了!”这样的话有一种暗示作用,也是一种间接的鼓励。孩子得到了鼓舞,会更加努力,做起事来就会格外细心,更加追求完美
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1.一个人总要走陌生的路,看陌生的风景,听陌生的歌,然后在某个不经意的瞬间,你会发现,原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福,不是长生不老,不是大鱼大肉,不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃,想被爱的时候有人来爱你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.爱情是灯,友情是影子,当灯灭了,你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友,是在最后可以给你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我爱你不是因为你是谁,而是我在你面前可以是谁。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.爱情,要么让人成熟,要么让人堕落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.举得起放得下的叫举重,举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜,大多数人的爱情,都是负重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中,人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人,用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人,再用一天的时间去爱上一个人,到最后呢,却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一个人一生可以爱上很多的人,等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后,你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富,它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱,但是随着年龄的增长,终于领悟到爱一个人,就算用一辈子的时间,还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人,体谅这个人,直到爱上为止,是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.当明天变成了今天成为了昨天,最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天,我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走,这不是静止火车里,与相邻列车交错时,仿佛自己在前进的错觉,而是我们真实的在成长,在这件事里成了另一个自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11.离开我就别安慰我,要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾经拥有的,不要忘记。不能得到的,更要珍惜。属于自己的,不要放弃。已经失去的,留作回忆。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离,这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人,充满变数,我于是后退一步,静静的看着,直到看见真诚的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的爱是俯视而生,而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界,坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前,应该一直留有一个地方,独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么,不知道是谁,不知道如何去爱,也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情,也许永远都没有人。可是,这种等待,就是爱情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦?我们总以为那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我们才发现,它一直都是很轻,很轻的。我们以为爱的很深,很深,来日岁月,会让你知道,它不过很浅,很浅。最深和最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在这个世界上,只有真正快乐的男人,才能带给女人真正的快乐。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果没有感性,就要理性;如果没有理性,就要有自知之明;如果连这个都没有了,她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的爱情,需要的不是伤心,而是时间,一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.