结婚的时候牧师说的话
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结婚的时候牧师说的话在五颜六色画满《圣经》人物的天花板底下,伴随着婚礼进行曲,一对俊男靓女缓步走向一位手捧《圣经》的年长神父。站定后,神父讲一通耶稣,然后与新郎新娘进行如下的对话:
神父:“新郎,你愿意娶新娘为妻吗?”
新郎:“是的,我愿意。”
神父:“无论她将来是富有还是贫穷、或无论她将来身体健康或不适,你都愿意和她永远在一起吗?”
新郎:“是的,我愿意。”
神父转向新娘。( 文章阅读网:www.sanwen.net )
神父:“新娘,你愿意嫁给新郎吗?”
新娘:“是的,我愿意。”
神父:“无论她将来是富有还是贫穷、或无论她将来身体健康或不适,你都愿意和她永远在一起吗?”
新娘:“是的,我愿意。”
神父:“好,我以圣灵、圣父、圣子的名义宣布:新郎新娘结为夫妻。现在,新郎可以亲吻新娘了。”
新郎新娘互赠结婚戒指,然后深情接吻。教堂里掌声四起。
一般来讲,这类的婚礼都不是由神父或牧师来主持的,而是由民间主持婚礼的人主持。这些人称作 Civic Celibrant。他们是在经过短期学习之后,获得证书的。每个区都有这样的人。结婚人只需付少量的钱就可以了。
在澳大利亚除了神父、牧师和这些民间证婚人士之外,也有登记处,类似中国的婚姻登记处,所不同的是这里的登记处除了办理婚姻登记之外,还办理其它的登记事务。
现在,还有一些年轻人认为结婚是他们自己的事情,因此,他们两口子就找两个证婚人去登记处登记结婚,然后找一家咖啡馆或饭店,喝一杯咖啡或吃一顿饭,就算完婚了。但不论举行什么样的婚礼,绝大部分的新人都倾向于去度蜜月。
一般西方的婚礼请柬除了写上时间、地点外,还会写上RSVP。这是法语请答覆的缩写。澳大利亚很多人也这样写,但是有些人喜欢用BWAT,这是英语 Bloody well answer this的缩写。当然这个 bloody 与通常的血没有关系,也没有骂人的意思,而是澳大利亚人用的最多、最广的形容词,也被称作澳洲最伟大的形容词。其实这个缩写的意思就是特别或最什么... ...。因此,Bloody well anser this,的意思是最好答覆。通常的婚礼请柬是提前六个星期到二个月发出。当你受到请柬后,最好提前三个星期回个话,你是出席还是不出席。这样邀请人就可以事先知道有多少人来,于是可以早点作出安排。
在中国结婚,购买家具、办喜酒的费用都是由男方支出,而在澳大利亚则恰恰相反,所有家里的摆设、日常用品以及办喜筵的费用都是由女方负担,男方只需负担婚礼时伴娘别的胸针等一些仪式上的小东西。住房一般都是男女双方凑钱购买。
这样看女方的负担很重,为了解决这个问题,女方会召开各种名称的聚会,比方说厨房晚会等,出席这种晚会的都是娘家人。他们就是根据不同名称的晚会,为新娘凑嫁妆。厨房晚会就是大家帮助新娘筹备厨房用品,从锅碗瓢盆、刀叉到各式酒具等,床上用品晚会,顾名思义就是准备床上用品。这就解决了新娘的一个大难题。
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非常经典有深度的电影英文台词
1.一个人总要走陌生的路,看陌生的风景,听陌生的歌,然后在某个不经意的瞬间,你会发现,原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福,不是长生不老,不是大鱼大肉,不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃,想被爱的时候有人来爱你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.爱情是灯,友情是影子,当灯灭了,你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友,是在最后可以给你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我爱你不是因为你是谁,而是我在你面前可以是谁。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.爱情,要么让人成熟,要么让人堕落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.举得起放得下的叫举重,举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜,大多数人的爱情,都是负重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中,人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人,用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人,再用一天的时间去爱上一个人,到最后呢,却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一个人一生可以爱上很多的人,等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后,你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富,它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱,但是随着年龄的增长,终于领悟到爱一个人,就算用一辈子的时间,还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人,体谅这个人,直到爱上为止,是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.当明天变成了今天成为了昨天,最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天,我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走,这不是静止火车里,与相邻列车交错时,仿佛自己在前进的错觉,而是我们真实的在成长,在这件事里成了另一个自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11.离开我就别安慰我,要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾经拥有的,不要忘记。不能得到的,更要珍惜。属于自己的,不要放弃。已经失去的,留作回忆。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离,这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人,充满变数,我于是后退一步,静静的看着,直到看见真诚的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的爱是俯视而生,而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界,坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前,应该一直留有一个地方,独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么,不知道是谁,不知道如何去爱,也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情,也许永远都没有人。可是,这种等待,就是爱情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦?我们总以为那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我们才发现,它一直都是很轻,很轻的。我们以为爱的很深,很深,来日岁月,会让你知道,它不过很浅,很浅。最深和最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在这个世界上,只有真正快乐的男人,才能带给女人真正的快乐。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果没有感性,就要理性;如果没有理性,就要有自知之明;如果连这个都没有了,她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的爱情,需要的不是伤心,而是时间,一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.