给老婆说的话

2014-08-03

《给老婆说的话》好句子大全

给老婆说的话我现在的职业很多,总结最近的工作,又可加封自己一个称号“灭火大王”。理由是朋友间、工作上、夫妻间,大家有什么事都愿意找我说说、我也是别人有什么难事都想搀合搀合。反正我一直都认为,大家好才是真的好吗!你说是吧!最近又有一夫妻因家庭琐事争吵个不停,我又得出马了。这方讲来那方说,这回双方还都挺固执,躺在床上就想,这回“灭火”工作,完成不顺利,还有“星星之火”,思来想去,想出一招,就由本人给两位营造一种浪漫的方式和好吧。为二位代言写信。

分两个章节,老公写给老婆的,老婆写给老公的。

老公写给老婆的:

老婆,认识你是那样的偶然“一双鞋子”,与你相识又是那样的必然“见到你就再放不下你”,与你签手是上天的安排“你我有缘”,从第一天见到你,你就注定是一个有“个性”的女子,我欣赏你。结婚十年了,我们风风雨雨一起走过,外人不知道,只有你我最清楚,因为有你,这个家才生机勃勃,因为有你,才把这个家营造的温暖如春,也因为有你,我才有信心在外边打拼,更因为有你,我们的未来都一直不是梦。老婆,这一年来,我们生气的次数是与日俱增,一个手掌拍不响,但我方原因还是大些,可你也不能老拿我的面子当“鞋垫子”啊,“家不是讲理的地方”,这是一小女子告诉我的,我要从现在做起,从这以后注意,以后有事多和老婆商量,多采纳老婆意见和建议,不能因为我一直在外面和有能力的人接触,能力稍微提高了那么一点点就尾巴翘得老高,也得体会一下你的感受,不能因为十年前和你学习,现在超越了你,就不把“豆包”当“干粮”,而是要认为家是两个人共同营造的,从今往后一定要始终秉持:你好我才好,家好什么都好的原则,对你多关心一点,不求回报你多么支持我各方面工作,对家多照顾一点,要忙里愉闲也得多考虑你的感受。再有就是老婆,你生气的样子很难看,驴脸拉的老长了,比王母娘娘的裹脚布还长,十年来,我的脾气也长了不少,以后一定改正,要做到你喊我不喊,你大声我听不见,其实老婆,你也得换个角度考虑问题,心眼再大点儿,再大度点儿,什么事情还得是即然做了,就不应等着回报的想法,什么事情都是水到渠成才好。你也得给我个台阶啊,你说我已经倒出去的水能让我去再收回吗?你说,我在外面再忙活,不也是忙这个家呢吗,我们不生气了,其实能生气还说明心里都有对方,要到生不起气那天,就才真叫悲哀!可也别生个没完没了啊!否则成“超生游击队”了吗?

最后我总结一下:从现在开始我们都采取换位思考方式每件事都多考虑下对方的感受。一定要大事化小,小事化了。有事当没事,没事不找事。

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非常经典有深度的电影英文台词

1.一个人总要走陌生的路,看陌生的风景,听陌生的歌,然后在某个不经意的瞬间,你会发现,原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。

One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

2.幸福,不是长生不老,不是大鱼大肉,不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃,想被爱的时候有人来爱你。

Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

3.爱情是灯,友情是影子,当灯灭了,你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友,是在最后可以给你力量的人。

Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

4.我爱你不是因为你是谁,而是我在你面前可以是谁。

I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

5.爱情,要么让人成熟,要么让人堕落。

Love makes man grow up or sink down.

6.举得起放得下的叫举重,举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜,大多数人的爱情,都是负重的。

If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

7.我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中,人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人,用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人,再用一天的时间去爱上一个人,到最后呢,却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。

We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

8.一个人一生可以爱上很多的人,等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后,你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富,它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。

One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

9.年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱,但是随着年龄的增长,终于领悟到爱一个人,就算用一辈子的时间,还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人,体谅这个人,直到爱上为止,是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。

When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

10.当明天变成了今天成为了昨天,最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天,我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走,这不是静止火车里,与相邻列车交错时,仿佛自己在前进的错觉,而是我们真实的在成长,在这件事里成了另一个自己。

When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

11.离开我就别安慰我,要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。

If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

12.曾经拥有的,不要忘记。不能得到的,更要珍惜。属于自己的,不要放弃。已经失去的,留作回忆。

Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

13.我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离,这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人,充满变数,我于是后退一步,静静的看着,直到看见真诚的感情。

I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

14.男人的爱是俯视而生,而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。

Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

15.好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界,坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。

Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

16.在自己面前,应该一直留有一个地方,独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么,不知道是谁,不知道如何去爱,也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情,也许永远都没有人。可是,这种等待,就是爱情本身。

We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

17.有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦?我们总以为那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我们才发现,它一直都是很轻,很轻的。我们以为爱的很深,很深,来日岁月,会让你知道,它不过很浅,很浅。最深和最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。

Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.

18.在这个世界上,只有真正快乐的男人,才能带给女人真正的快乐。

In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness

19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果没有感性,就要理性;如果没有理性,就要有自知之明;如果连这个都没有了,她只有不幸。

If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

20.一段不被接受的爱情,需要的不是伤心,而是时间,一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。

An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.