讨女孩子喜欢的话题

2014-08-18

《讨女孩子喜欢的话题》好句子大全

讨女孩子喜欢的话题对女性来说,能够收到他的礼物总是一件令人高兴的事。相反地,如果从不曾收到他任何礼物,内心里一定会感到空虚寂寞吧。情人之间如果互赠礼物的话,最主要的是心意。和礼物本身的金额高低完全没有关系,最重要的是对方为自己花了多少时间去挑选礼物。因为礼物的价值不在于金额高低,而在于送礼的人是否有一颗真诚的心

但是,我认为礼物这种东西,并不表示收到就一定是好的。

以男性而言,可能同时和好几名女性-交往,那么在送礼物的时候。也会以优先顺序来决定礼物的内容。最好的东西大概是送给最喜欢的女性,然后是第二好的,第三好的……礼物的内容随着喜欢的程度而逐渐下降。象这么狡猾的男性虽然并不是很多,但是同时周旋在好几名女性之间的男性确实是存在的。或者也有些男性经常送礼物给情人,但他们的心态其实是认为先送了再说,反正礼多人不怪嘛。

真正的问题在于女性本身总喜欢眼睛看得到的东西。

虽然不要求好几克拉的钻戒,但不管是装饰品、鲜花或手帕都好,总之就是希望能收到礼物,希望男性以具体的东西来宣示他的爱情。

但如果反过来以男性的眼光来看女性这种喜欢礼物的心理的话,要讨女性的欢心简直是太容易了。只要送送礼物,女性就会兴高采烈地接受这种形式上的爱情表现。所以男性一到夏威夷或纽约等地,就会象到风景名胜盖印章作纪念似地,把蒂芬妮宝石名店的装饰品给买回来。因为有些男性认为,送这些老掉牙的礼物,就足以让女性高兴个老半天了。( 文章阅读网:www.sanwen.net )

而诚实的男性就会用心去思考这种讨好女性的做法究竟是对还是错。随着男性本身人格的不同。有些男性对这种太容易的事情反而不屑去做。有些男性就算从来不送礼物,而且从来也不曾说句温柔的话,但是内心里却是真心真意地喜欢他。相反地,送红玫瑰花、礼物、或者请女性上法国餐厅吃高级料理……未必就是真情真爱的表现。

因此,即使你从不曾收列他的任何礼物,也没有什么好悲哀的。因为男性就算不送礼物,也不代表他完全不在乎女性的一方,而要依本身对礼物有什么看法而定。

总之,礼物的价值是在于对方的心意。

送礼物是希望让收礼物的人感到高兴。所以,如果真心想让她高兴,除了礼物之外,还有许多其它的方式。

就算要送礼物的话,也不见得一定是送些老套的东西,真正有心的人一定会努力去寻找适合的礼物。

正因为如此,从礼物当中就可以看出对方平日是否用心在了解自己,知道自己想要什么东西。礼物的价值也就随着对方的了解程度而有所不同了。

好比送一枚昂贵的卡蒂亚钻戒给一个平日不戴戒指的女性,根本一点用处都没有。如果以为金额昂贵的礼物就一定能得到对方欢心的话,简直是愚蠢透顶的想法。花再多钱去买礼物,还不如平日多用心观察对方的需要。好比她留着一头的长发,平日到她屋子里去,总看到各式各样的发带,似乎她在收集发带。那么对她而言,一条别出心裁的发带自然是更有价值了。

所以,送礼就要送出你的真心,所有的女孩子都不会拒绝真心的。

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非常经典有深度的电影英文台词

1.一个人总要走陌生的路,看陌生的风景,听陌生的歌,然后在某个不经意的瞬间,你会发现,原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。

One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

2.幸福,不是长生不老,不是大鱼大肉,不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃,想被爱的时候有人来爱你。

Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

3.爱情是灯,友情是影子,当灯灭了,你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友,是在最后可以给你力量的人。

Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

4.我爱你不是因为你是谁,而是我在你面前可以是谁。

I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

5.爱情,要么让人成熟,要么让人堕落。

Love makes man grow up or sink down.

6.举得起放得下的叫举重,举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜,大多数人的爱情,都是负重的。

If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

7.我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中,人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人,用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人,再用一天的时间去爱上一个人,到最后呢,却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。

We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

8.一个人一生可以爱上很多的人,等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后,你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富,它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。

One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

9.年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱,但是随着年龄的增长,终于领悟到爱一个人,就算用一辈子的时间,还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人,体谅这个人,直到爱上为止,是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。

When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

10.当明天变成了今天成为了昨天,最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天,我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走,这不是静止火车里,与相邻列车交错时,仿佛自己在前进的错觉,而是我们真实的在成长,在这件事里成了另一个自己。

When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

11.离开我就别安慰我,要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。

If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

12.曾经拥有的,不要忘记。不能得到的,更要珍惜。属于自己的,不要放弃。已经失去的,留作回忆。

Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

13.我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离,这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人,充满变数,我于是后退一步,静静的看着,直到看见真诚的感情。

I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

14.男人的爱是俯视而生,而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。

Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

15.好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界,坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。

Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

16.在自己面前,应该一直留有一个地方,独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么,不知道是谁,不知道如何去爱,也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情,也许永远都没有人。可是,这种等待,就是爱情本身。

We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

17.有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦?我们总以为那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我们才发现,它一直都是很轻,很轻的。我们以为爱的很深,很深,来日岁月,会让你知道,它不过很浅,很浅。最深和最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。

Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.

18.在这个世界上,只有真正快乐的男人,才能带给女人真正的快乐。

In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness

19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果没有感性,就要理性;如果没有理性,就要有自知之明;如果连这个都没有了,她只有不幸。

If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

20.一段不被接受的爱情,需要的不是伤心,而是时间,一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。

An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.