贬低自己的话语

2014-08-25

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贬低自己的话语1.没想到会在这里遇见他,当时给人的感觉太轻浮,他的专业照相机和我的喜好不期而遇,不是对陌生人都有戒心,而是不愿意接触随意玩笑的人。

并不知道每天都从他的公司门口经过,一个暑期后难道算是不期而遇?当他笑着从公司走出来招呼时,顷刻间消去对他敌意,他依然热情没有顾忌地说顺便介绍自己的公司,我大方的笑笑,说着寒暄的话语。真的没想到,仔细浏览一遍,公司的布置充分体现主人的喜好,虽小但干净整齐,诗情画意,柔美大气。似乎和他经营的产品不相关但文化相符。我很容易就会不设防的听别人谈天说地,以前酷爱网络的他,除了经营公司外,现在最大的爱好就是摄影,而且有圈内的朋友相互交流。也许正是这些造就了他敏锐的洞察能力。

执着自己喜欢的,坚持自己想要做的,这个摄影师就是这样走向自己的成功,就像马云在开学第一课那天说的一样。他对他上次的冒失表示歉意的时候,我能知道现实中的真诚。“任何自己认为值得的,都要珍惜,都要加倍努力,不要在受到阻力的时候,轻易转嫁自己的情感,摄影就是这样子,既然画面可以体现多方面的自己,那就必须保持水准,不要让临时的诱-惑贬低自己的情感”,这是他今天让我记忆最深刻的一句话。

我们以后可以做朋友?我想是的!因为心地坦然。

2.太安葬 …… 哟 一个故事 自己才完美

. 无论历经任何的伤害、仍由我决定爱不爱。( 文章阅读网:www.sanwen.net )

忧 伤 的 调 调 诠 释 有 些 难 以 启 齿 的 心 情

廉价的游戏、你会腻。

她比我能给你快乐、我会离去。

那些話語/貶低了我/看輕了你自己。

亲爱的,我愿意坐在樱花树下, 静静的等待着。你回来爱我。

当一个女人看着天空时,她不是在寻找什么,她只是寂寞

﹏`∥ 因 在 乎 你 、、所 以 装 傻

如果有 如果 、 我 们还昰我们吗 ?

3.

自己不把自己当回事,别人更瞧不起自己.如果你时常对自己有负面评价,别人对你的评价也好不到哪里去,别人对你的肯定,首先是你自己对自己的肯定.

习惯性的谦逊反而让人觉得你是个"牢骚满腹"又不思进取的人.有些人喜欢把自己贬得很低,比如说"像我这样的人,只能拿低薪而以"或者说"你也看到啦,我这人就这么没用"虽然你的出发点是为了谦虚,但如果你不希望别人觉得你是个阴沉的人,那么最好不要用这种对自己不利的语气谈论自己.

当然,偶尔这么说说倒无所谓,但久而久之就会成为习惯,或许一开始说,别人以为你谦虚,并没有特别在意,但如果每次见面听的都是这种负面评价,就会逐渐觉得和这种人见面没什么意思.更有甚者,会觉得这不是谦虚,而是真正没有本事;这一点即是心理学家所谓的"累积暗示效果"所发生的作用.

如你经常对孩子说"你真没用",或"你真笨"等,即使孩子十分正常,久而久之也会觉得自己真是个没用的人,就像这样,经常听到的话就会认为是对的,这是人类天性的特性之一.

因此,贬低自己的说法,不公对自己毫无益处,反而还会弄巧成拙,使别人以为你真的是你自己所说的那么一个人.

因此人不能过度谦虚,有此类习惯的朋友们,要改正一下噢.

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非常经典有深度的电影英文台词

1.一个人总要走陌生的路,看陌生的风景,听陌生的歌,然后在某个不经意的瞬间,你会发现,原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。

One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

2.幸福,不是长生不老,不是大鱼大肉,不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃,想被爱的时候有人来爱你。

Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

3.爱情是灯,友情是影子,当灯灭了,你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友,是在最后可以给你力量的人。

Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

4.我爱你不是因为你是谁,而是我在你面前可以是谁。

I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

5.爱情,要么让人成熟,要么让人堕落。

Love makes man grow up or sink down.

6.举得起放得下的叫举重,举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜,大多数人的爱情,都是负重的。

If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

7.我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中,人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人,用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人,再用一天的时间去爱上一个人,到最后呢,却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。

We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

8.一个人一生可以爱上很多的人,等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后,你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富,它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。

One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

9.年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱,但是随着年龄的增长,终于领悟到爱一个人,就算用一辈子的时间,还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人,体谅这个人,直到爱上为止,是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。

When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

10.当明天变成了今天成为了昨天,最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天,我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走,这不是静止火车里,与相邻列车交错时,仿佛自己在前进的错觉,而是我们真实的在成长,在这件事里成了另一个自己。

When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

11.离开我就别安慰我,要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。

If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

12.曾经拥有的,不要忘记。不能得到的,更要珍惜。属于自己的,不要放弃。已经失去的,留作回忆。

Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

13.我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离,这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人,充满变数,我于是后退一步,静静的看着,直到看见真诚的感情。

I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

14.男人的爱是俯视而生,而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。

Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

15.好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界,坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。

Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

16.在自己面前,应该一直留有一个地方,独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么,不知道是谁,不知道如何去爱,也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情,也许永远都没有人。可是,这种等待,就是爱情本身。

We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

17.有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦?我们总以为那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我们才发现,它一直都是很轻,很轻的。我们以为爱的很深,很深,来日岁月,会让你知道,它不过很浅,很浅。最深和最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。

Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.

18.在这个世界上,只有真正快乐的男人,才能带给女人真正的快乐。

In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness

19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果没有感性,就要理性;如果没有理性,就要有自知之明;如果连这个都没有了,她只有不幸。

If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

20.一段不被接受的爱情,需要的不是伤心,而是时间,一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。

An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.