赞美一个男人的话

2014-08-25

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赞美一个男人的话人们都说女人是用耳朵来生活的,赞美是女人生命中的阳光。其实,男人也一样,他们一样喜欢听到他人对自己的肯定和赞美,这会让他们有一种价值感,并由此充满自信。可以说,恰到好处的赞美是打在男人身上的一剂强心剂。

通往男人内心的道路,必定要通过男人自尊心这一瓶颈。要知道,奉承可以让你走遍天下无敌手,当然也是对付男人的化绵掌。

成功的男人

介于传统社会对男性角色的定位――挑家立业者,使得男人非常在乎自己在别人心目中的形象,他的自尊心和他的工作、事业密切相关的工作,任何人对他工作做出评价都会让他反应敏感。因此,无论男人从事的是精彩的职业还是普通的劳动,他都希望你对他的事业成就喝彩。

正因为男人期待的是你对他个人事业成就的关注和认可,所以那种用在任何人身上都可以的泛泛溢美之词,“你很有能力或魅力”这类,只能让他感觉你是在敷衍,最恰当的方式是对他的一些个人特色进行赞美。一位成功的商人曾说:“有那么多的人整天对我说,你现在的成就很让我羡慕,我都听腻了,锦上添花的奉承让我一点也不觉得激动,倒是:‘你的成功是因为你在产品定位方面有着超人的识别能力’这类的话,让我着实兴奋了许久。”

当然,对男人成就的赞美也不一定只有用语言表达这一种,有时候,做一个聚精会神的倾听者,也会让他因被欣赏而沾沾自喜。( 文章阅读网:www.sanwen.net )

一位绅士

所谓风度,是男人在言谈举止中透出的一种味道。不要以为男人真的是散淡随意,潇洒不羁,其实他们是很在乎别人对自己举止的评价的。曾经有一位女友说起他和男友分手的原因,只因为她在一次朋友聚会上调侃了男友的局促,就大大伤了对方的自尊心,扔了句:“既然你认为我没风度,那么分开好了。”

事实也如此,行动比语言更有说服力,只有当你对对方的举止言谈很满意、很欣赏时,你也才会爱上他。而在这方面赞美男人的聪明之道,也是拿他和别的男人比较,表现出你的欣赏。范文说:“有一次,我和女友乘出租车,下车后我替他打开车门,她说她以前遇到的男人从不知道什么是绅士风度。这句话极大地满足了我的自尊心,也让我觉得自己是个很受欢迎的男人。”

仪表堂堂

许多男性承认,他们在关注女人闭月羞花的同时,也希望自己貌比潘安。

但是同样因为社会角色定位,男人特别害怕女人把他们当作绣花枕头,因而他们对女人对他们外在形象的夸赞是特别敏感的,让女人兴奋的“你长得真漂亮”、“你穿得真好看”之类的话,会让男人觉得特别不舒服,在他的理解,这里透着一种嘲讽,好像说:“你有些娘娘腔,你怎么像女人一样爱打扮。”

所以说,要真的想对男人表达你对他外形的欣赏,还须审时度势,悠着点好。

最后,针对男人自视清高的心理,有一点你还须提醒自己,那就是永远不要对一个男人说,他长得像或做派像哪个名人,也许攀缘明星会让你信心倍增,但对男人而言,这是对他自尊心的侵犯。

记住,无论一个男人长的美丑、事业是否成功,他都希望自己在你那里是最棒的,这是让你的赞美赢得他的心的关键。

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非常经典有深度的电影英文台词

1.一个人总要走陌生的路,看陌生的风景,听陌生的歌,然后在某个不经意的瞬间,你会发现,原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。

One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

2.幸福,不是长生不老,不是大鱼大肉,不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃,想被爱的时候有人来爱你。

Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

3.爱情是灯,友情是影子,当灯灭了,你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友,是在最后可以给你力量的人。

Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

4.我爱你不是因为你是谁,而是我在你面前可以是谁。

I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

5.爱情,要么让人成熟,要么让人堕落。

Love makes man grow up or sink down.

6.举得起放得下的叫举重,举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜,大多数人的爱情,都是负重的。

If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

7.我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中,人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人,用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人,再用一天的时间去爱上一个人,到最后呢,却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。

We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

8.一个人一生可以爱上很多的人,等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后,你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富,它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。

One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

9.年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱,但是随着年龄的增长,终于领悟到爱一个人,就算用一辈子的时间,还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人,体谅这个人,直到爱上为止,是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。

When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

10.当明天变成了今天成为了昨天,最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天,我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走,这不是静止火车里,与相邻列车交错时,仿佛自己在前进的错觉,而是我们真实的在成长,在这件事里成了另一个自己。

When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

11.离开我就别安慰我,要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。

If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

12.曾经拥有的,不要忘记。不能得到的,更要珍惜。属于自己的,不要放弃。已经失去的,留作回忆。

Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

13.我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离,这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人,充满变数,我于是后退一步,静静的看着,直到看见真诚的感情。

I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

14.男人的爱是俯视而生,而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。

Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

15.好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界,坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。

Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

16.在自己面前,应该一直留有一个地方,独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么,不知道是谁,不知道如何去爱,也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情,也许永远都没有人。可是,这种等待,就是爱情本身。

We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

17.有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦?我们总以为那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我们才发现,它一直都是很轻,很轻的。我们以为爱的很深,很深,来日岁月,会让你知道,它不过很浅,很浅。最深和最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。

Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.

18.在这个世界上,只有真正快乐的男人,才能带给女人真正的快乐。

In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness

19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果没有感性,就要理性;如果没有理性,就要有自知之明;如果连这个都没有了,她只有不幸。

If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

20.一段不被接受的爱情,需要的不是伤心,而是时间,一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。

An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.